Have you read SEX AT DAWN (2010)? If you haven’t, you should. No, you have to. It’s an excellent read about why humans have a very long history of NOT BEING MONOGAMOUS. We struggle to be so, but we’re not really able for it. I am hopeless at monogamy. I want to be non-monogamous in an open way, but so far that isn’t possible. I am hoping that at some stage, it will be. We need novelty, we need multiple partners. Women just as much as men, even though all the press steers us to think we women are content with just one. Not so. Not so.